What is love? Seriously, though, what is it? What is love? A verb? A noun? A universal truth? An ideal? A common thread of all religions? A cult? A neurological phenomenon? There's no shortage of answers.

愛是什麼？說真的，它到底是什麼？愛是什麼呢? 一個動詞? 一個名詞? 普遍的真理? 一個理想概念? 宗教信仰的共同點? 一種狂熱的崇拜？一種神經學現象? 這個問題可以有很多很多答案。

Some are all-encompassing. It conquers all. It's all you need. It's all there is. These are all comparisons, though, ways of defining it by contrast, by saying it's more important than all other things, but is it? Sure, love matters more than your standard turkey sandwich, but does it matter more than shelter? Or sanity? Or an exceptional turkey sandwich? No matter your answer, you're just ranking it, not defining it.

一些答案很共通。它淩駕于一切之上。它是你唯一渴望的東西。它就是愛。話雖如此，這些都是用類比的方法去诠釋愛的，與世間萬物相比，愛尤為重要。但真的是這樣嗎？當然，愛遠比你的普通的火雞三明治來得重要，但它是否敵得過居住的房子? 或者能否打敗理智? 亦或是一份豪華火雞三明治呢? 不論你的答案是什麼，你隻是進行了排名，而非定義它。

Another challenge to defining love is we often try to do so while falling into it or out of it. Would you trust someone who just won the lottery to accurately define the concept of currency? Or, I don't know, ask a guy to define bears while he's fending them off? Or is romance not like winning the lottery? Are break ups not like bear attacks? Bad comparisons? That's my point. I'm not thinking right because I'm in love, so ha!

定義愛的另一個難題就在于我們經常在自己墜入愛河時或在失去愛的時候 去定義愛，你會相信一個剛赢了的人能精确地定義金錢嗎？或者,再問一位剛剛逃脫了狗熊追擊的哥們，熊到底可不可怕? 再或者，浪漫是不是就像中一樣? 被熊襲擊跟失戀的感覺一樣嗎? 不恰當的比喻對嗎？這就是我的意思，我無法理性地思考，因為我在談戀愛，所以，哈哈！

Taking a step back, or taking a cold shower, whatever, love is potentially the most intensely thought about thing in all of human history. And despite centuries upon centuries of obsession, it still overwhelms us. Some say it's a feeling, a magical emotion, a feeling for someone like you've never felt before. But feelings are fluid, not very concrete foundation for a definition. Sometimes you hate the person you love.

退一步講，或者冷靜一下，無論如何在人類曆史長河中，愛可能是被思考最多的主題。盡管人類迷戀愛情已有成千上萬年，它還是能輕而易舉地讓人淪陷。有人說愛是種感覺一種神奇的情感，一種從未有過的感覺——直到你遇到了那個人。但是這感覺捉摸不定，不能作為定義的實據。有時候你還會讨厭你愛的那個人呢。

But if love is a thing that we can define, then how can it mean opposite things for so many people? So, maybe love's just all in your head, a personal mystery winding through your neural pathways and lighting up pleasing, natural rewards in your nervous system. Perhaps these rewards are addictive. Perhaps love is a temporary or permanent addiction to a person, just like a person can be addicted to a drug. I don't mean to be edgy like some pop song. Evidence shows that chemicals in your brain stimulated by another person can make you develop a habit for that person.

但是如果我們能夠定義愛情，那它怎麼對于不同的人來說，意味着那麼多不同的事？所以，也許愛情隻存在于每個人的心裡，奇妙的電流從你的神經裡竄過，然後觸發了你的神經系統，作為獎勵——你得到了一種愉悅的自然反應，或許這些甜頭是令人欲罷不能的，愛也可能是一個短暫的，亦或是永遠的瘾，就像一個人可以對毒品上瘾。我不是故意弄噱頭激怒你，像一些流行樂中唱的一樣，證據表明你腦内的化學物質被另外一個人激發，這些物質會讓你對那個人産生依賴。

If no two people are the same, no two people's love is the same either. So, in every loving relationship, there's a lot to talk about and partners should be open to that, or the relationship probably won't last. Love is always up for discussion and, sure, under construction. So, if we can't define it, that's a good sign. It means we're all still making it. Wait, I didn't mean, you know what I meant.

假如每個人都是獨一無二的，也就沒有一模一樣的愛。所以，在每段戀愛中，總是有許多可以談論的話題，戀人們需要彼此接受并尊重這一點，不然，戀愛的小船，總是說翻就翻。愛是一個永恒的話題。沒錯，在臆想之下。所以，即使我們不能定義愛情，也不代表這是件壞事，這意味着我們的愛依然存在。等等，我不是說，管它的，你知道我什麼意思。

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